• How I cleared my Skin with Acne Treatments

    People who knew me when my skin was at its worst always ask how did I clear my adult acne so fast. Now let me be honest, my skin is far from perfect but it is SO much better than it was before. I have little to no active cystic acne pimples. I used to have big, dark pimples all over my cheeks, chin and forehead. Every time I thought one was gone, another 4 popped up in different spots. After the pimples were gone, they left dark scars in their place, which honestly might have been worse than the pimple itself. I had gone to a regular dermatologist and…

  • How I Stay Fresh & Confident All Day

    This post is sponsored by Summer’s Eve®, but all opinions and/or content is my own. Springtime is here! The change of weather is synonymous with spring cleaning, starting the warmer months out with good habits, maybe even a new lighter hair-do, overall setting yourself up for a fresh beginning. Setting up these new habits should also coincide with your feminine hygiene routine. I can even attest that I have hurried down the feminine hygiene aisle, not wanting anyone to see me… and then when someone turns down the same aisle, I’ll turn around pretending to look at the vitamins. There is this misconception that using feminine hygiene washes means that…

  • 10 Tricks for Reducing Anxiety

    (This post contains affiliate links. See my disclosure about affiliate links here.) This month is Mental Health Awareness month and is really near and dear to my heart because for the last 5 years I have learned how to cope with my anxiety. Here’s the back story… I lived most of my adult life thinking it was normal to feel like I was breathing through a straw and feeling my heart race for no reason. I thought it was normal to worry about something I said or did years ago or simply not go out because I overly worried about what I was going to wear, who I was going…

  • My Experience with Vampire Facial!

    One day at 22, I noticed my skin starting to break out more than normal. I am not sure what caused it but suddenly I was suffering from HORRIBLE cystic acne.  Most of the cystic pimples were on my cheeks and chin. They left behind deep, noticeable scars and dark pigmentation that remind me every day how bad my skin once was. I became hopeless and thought that with time, hopefully, they would fade. But when I went to Apex Medical Skin and Aesthetics, I was overjoyed to find out that microneedling could help improve the appearance of deep scars, and coupled with Platelet Rich Plasma (PRP), I would even…

  • The Perfect Curvy Girl Lace Dress

    (This post contains affiliate links. See my disclosure about affiliate links here.) Tis’ the season!… probably not the one you’re thinking about BUT instead we are talking Easter, Spring/Summer Parties & Wedding Season! If you’re like me then you’re not too excited about dress shopping. It’s either dresses fit me too tight on my chest or don’t go over my rear! The whole thing is really quite a struggle, but I am here to show you my foolproof favorite dress from Jessica London! And you’re in luck because everything on their site is 50% off with code JLBApril50. Styled For Easter For Easter, I typically go to church with family…

  • My First New York Fashion Week

    How I got there It was late January, I was deep in the Pinterest cave, looking up fashion inspiration when I realized New York Fashion Week was right around the corner. I wondered if I should even try to go, I have only been blogging for a year and my following isn’t that big… but I wondered to myself, if I don’t try would I be missing out on an opportunity? I had always believed that you get more opportunities by trying new things. I mean, the worst case would be that I don’t get invited and then I just work harder for next time. So I sat down, did…

  • 10 Ways to Create a Happier You in 2019

    1. Set aside time every week for special ‘ME’ time. Whether it be an hour to read a book, having a bubble bath or watching your favorite movie. That special time alone will reset your clock and allow for mental clarity. 2. Go to sleep when you feel tired. Do not try to fight rest because it will back up and have a longer negative impact on your productivity. You may get sleepy at 7:30 one night and going to bed that early is what your body needs. This will help stabilize your mood and increase your daily productivity. 3. At the end of each night journal 3 things you’re…

  • Christmas Card 2018 Photoshoot

    Its the most wonderful time of year! This is my husband and I’s first photo shoot for a Christmas card. The year before we used a photo we had taken on a recent trip to NYC.  Personally, I love sending snail mail because it’s so special and sometimes as adults you lose everyday communication with people but sending a Christmas card reminds them that you still care about them and often times reopens conversation with them! It’s a simple gesture that can mean so much. I knew I wanted my outfit to be fabulous so I was super excited about getting the perfect dress from MGC boutique in Apex and…

  • Perfect Gifts for Any Man

    (This post contains affiliate links. See my disclosure about affiliate links here.) My husband and I are going on 10 years of being together. Through the years, I have learned a bit about men’s taste in shopping. And basically the short of it is… if it comes in black or blacked out the better! I comprised this list with my husbands help. Some of these items are things he already has and loves ( like the OAC City watch), and some are things he’d like to have (i guess that was my hint hint) The issue I hear most women complain out during the holidays is what to get the…

  • Fool Proof Gift Guide for Her

    (This post contains affiliate links. See my disclosure about affiliate links here.) For this Fool Proof Holiday Gift Guide for her, I comprised all of my favorite items. I tried to focus on things that don’t require perfect sizing and that are less likely to get returned (haha)… I mean who doesn’t love leggings?! So ladies, make it easy for your other half and just share this link with him when he asks for your Christmas list and then act surprised when you open it! 1. Kenda Kist- Holiday Rectangle Drop Necklace (Free shipping with code MODERNVANITYSTYLE) 2. Kenda Kist- Holiday Rectangle Drop Earring(Free shipping with code MODERNVANITYSTYLE) 3. Kenda…